Social media star Watch Jazzy, born Jasmin Brown, had Black people divided on Twitter after her recent appearance on Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram’s podcast.
On June 29, Shan and Jasmin openly talked about roles in relationships which brought the podcast host to ask the comedian what her “biggest flex” was in her relationship with NFL free agent quarterback Cam Newton.
The 33-year-old internet star happily admitted to being “submissive” to her man, and then boasted about spoiling Cam.
“I think my biggest flex is how I treat my man.”
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“You know, like packing his bag, unpacking his bag. Just making sure—all the things that he wants. I pretty much read his mind,” she expounded to Shan. “If I know you, and I study you, I know how you are in the morning; I know how you are by midday. Before you can even ask me for something, I’m already on it. He’s spoiled.”
In a clip posted on her Instagram account, she discussed anticipating her man’s needs and making him feel welcome in his home.
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The 57-minute podcast episode’s description and Jasmin’s was described as ‘To submit to someone else is defined as accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the authority or will of another. So, how does that play out in romantic partnerships? Actor, comedian and bestie in your head Jasmin Brown shares why she joyfully submits to her man unconditionally. Jasmin also sheds light on the power split, sexual dynamic, as well as the roles and responsibilities that often come with identifying as a submissive woman to an alpha partner.”
Black Twitter was in a tizzy over the intimate interview.
What does a submissive woman do for her alpha man in a romantic dynamic? @watchjazzy explains the Art of Being Submissive. Listen here https://t.co/8bWouwKzxi pic.twitter.com/X5p4BJUhSI
— Shan Boodram (@shanboody) June 29, 2022
Some people agreed with Jasmin.
Interesting to see the women hating on her for how she treats her man. If tables were turned and a guy spoke about how much he cherishes and takes care of his woman there would be no hate from the same crowd.
It would be oh I wish my man was this or that etc.
— Kephern Fuller (@Kephern_Fuller) June 30, 2022
This woman said she has JOY- and you got a problem with the status of their relationship. ??????- Y’all hate happiness
— Macc On The Moon (@itsmaccman) June 30, 2022
“There are women who spoil their partners in this way especially if they are being treated well.” ?????? Key statement. It’s not crazy when both parties are taking care of each other’s needs. Submission only looks bad when it’s one sided and nothing is gained.
— Mocha_Butterfly (@MissCocoaMD) June 30, 2022
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with what she said cause this is exactly how I treat my man.
— The Girl Next Door. (@Gorgeous2Kill) June 30, 2022
I listened to the podcast. Beautiful explanation of submissiveness you can literally feel her feminine energy
…but I’d like to know ppls thoughts on her response to your question “What are you getting for all that you’re giving? What are you asking for in return?”?
— DES (@DestiniUmajje) July 1, 2022
Other Twitter users thought Jasmin was doing the most.
I’m not gonna judge how ppl live in their relationships if they are claiming that it works for them. I just know I’d be weirded out by a woman doing EVERYTHING for me. I would personally be like “damn, can I do something?” Just from personally knowing ppl need reciprocity ??
— Deleted but I’m kinda back. Stream NORK now ?? (@trillytrills2) June 30, 2022
This sounds ridiculous. Signed, a grown man with a job and a woman partner. Good luck everyone.
— Yes, Texas. (@21stDelany) June 30, 2022
Where’s the answer to what she’s getting in return???? pic.twitter.com/4tZwvEd3Hn
— Bronzeddoll?? (@PisceanGoddessa) June 30, 2022
That’s not submissiveness that’s someone using service , manipulation & control as coping mechanisms to sooth abadonment issues.
He best keep her happy, because if she ever get tired of him she will destroy his life in minutes.— Corvid (@DSpidery) June 30, 2022
One Twitter user posted a video reminding Jasmin that she didn’t have the same energy a short while ago.
So ,what happened ? https://t.co/xe1ovf7ZKa
— skuuski (@Rand0mPseud0) July 2, 2022
The comedian, seemingly anticipating the backlash, admitted that some folks may feel like she was “enabling” Cam, but that’s just who she was.
Shan and Cam’s bae also discussed the couple’s sex life. Jasmin divulged that she does anything to please her man, including having anal sex, even though she doesn’t like it. She also revealed that she scratched his back until he fell asleep every night.
In April, Cam had the internet shook with his problematic commentary about “bad b*tches.”
The serial cheater told Gillie Da King, “I grew up in a three-parent household. My mom, my father, and my grandmother. And I knew what a woman was. Not a bad b*tch,” opined. “A bad b*tch is a person who’s just, you know, ‘Girl, I’m a bad b*tch, I’m doing this, I’m doing that.’ I look the part, but I don’t act the part.”
He continued,” There’s a lot of women who are bad b*tches. And I say b*tches in a way, not to degrade a woman but just to go off the aesthetic of what they deem is a boss chick. Now a woman, for me, is, handling your own but knowing how to cater to a man’s needs. Right? And I think a lot of times when you get that [aesthetic] of ‘I’m a boss b*tch, Imma this, Imma that.’ No baby! But you can’t cook. You don’t know when to be quiet! You don’t know how to allow a man to lead.”
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