We all have our dealbreakers in romantic relationships. But when it comes to infidelity, former “Bad Girls Club” and “Basketball Wives” reality star Meghan James says that she’s okay with it, so long as no STDs or babies come from her man stepping out.
James sat down for an episode of Notorious Queens where she discussed the topic of cheating while sipping wine with several other women. “I believe in cheating respectfully,” James started.
She then clarified her controversial opinion in a solo confessional scene, saying “Cheating respectfully to me is cheating where I don’t find out…is having control over your other women…is using condoms and not having babies. Like cheat respectfully, because believe it or not, your man is cheating.”
James ended her confessional scene admitting, “I’m not leaving my man over a one-night stand with a b****, period.”
On what she would leave her partner over, James told the other ladies she’d only leave for three reasons: If her man brings her an STD, has a baby with another woman or if he’s gay.
Twitter immediately caught wind of James’ cheating comments and brought their own opinions to the table. One person tweeted the Notorious Queens video clip with the caption, “The bar is in hell,” implying that men aren’t held to the same dating standard as women.
The bar is in hell… 🥴 pic.twitter.com/gGlToM8Uvf
— Tee (@monetoxic) April 1, 2021
I want better for women.
— STONA LISA (@MIAMIDOPEGIRL) April 1, 2021
But James also wasn’t alone in her thoughts, with others agreeing with the model-actress view on men and relationships. “Y’all yapping under here like “I want better,” etc. I feel like her opinion is realistic. MEN CHEAT and that’s just that,” another user wrote.
Y’all yapping under here like “I want better” etc I feel like her opinion is realistic. MEN CHEAT and that’s just that.
— . (@215Dajah) April 1, 2021
Do you think James has a point? Watch the video clip and let us know your thoughts.
Is there a such thing as “cheating respectfully”? 👀🤔
— ALLBLK (@watchallblk) April 1, 2021